By RARENWISE
“THE BEST PART ABOUT PUTTING IN THE WORK IS WHEN YOU CAN REAP THE REWARDS OF YOUR LABOR” – RARENWISE
As most of you know, I recently removed myself from all those who no longer serve me. It’s been a…. Liberating journey. The last several years, I put a lot of work into making moves for myself and I am happy to announce that all my hard work paid off.
Most Importantly, that I did it for ME.
I almost purchased my new house for myself and the person I thought was my counterpart. However, I received quite the rude awakening in regards to their true feelings towards me. I honestly never knew someone could hate me THAT much.
I had been working on that shift for years. What I didn’t know was the guy only wanted a place to stay, mistreat me along the way, get a woman pregnant, still mistreat some more then assault her as she’s carrying THEIR baby
he got caught cheating and all he could do was deny it yet claim I was the cheater. He wanted to believe so hard that I was sleeping with my ex that he convinced himself of it.
No! Just because you have kids with an ex DOES NOT mean you still sleep with them.
I did make the mistake of revealing to my ex one day of Chads insecurities. I saw no harm in his question. He asked it in such good spirits. Why is Chad so jealous of me?
Because he thinks I’m still sleeping with you.
After a good laugh, we both went about our day and our lives. It was only in the moment, my ex used Chads insecurity against Chad to one up him, that I’d realized the Ill will and intent behind the inquiry in the first place.
With that exploited insecurity, Chad became even more damaging and self sabotaging. Suddenly convinced.
after all the stuff I saw on Chads Phone yes in reality I should have done the same. Only, that’s just not WHO I am. If I choose you, it’s ALL YOU.
HENCE WHY I FOUGHT FOR THE RELATIONSHIP AND LEAP… FOR HIM TO BE IN IT FULLY NOT HALF HEARTEDLY.
EVEN if I had done something, the ex had himself snipped years ago, and tested to make sure it stuck.
Chad began making ugly comments, knowing it was his but making sure to flex and state it’s was the exes. Why? Chad allowed HIS insecurity to drive him through hatred. While Chad doubted the union. As usual. STORY OF OUR LIVES. I had no confusion.
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